How to Propose in a Creative Way (Without Being Corny)
Photo by Temi Coker
So, you’re ready to pop the question—exciting, right? But let’s be real: you want it to be thoughtful, personal, and unforgettable… without feeling forced or over-the-top. The good news? Charlotte has plenty of incredible spots and local businesses that can help you pull off the perfect proposal.
If you’re stuck on how to make it happen, don’t worry—I’ve got you covered. Here are some creative (but not cringy, lol) ways to ask your lady to marry you.
1. Pick a Spot That Actually Means Something
Skip the overdone, cookie-cutter proposal locations. Instead, choose a place that has meaning to the two of you—maybe the coffee shop where you had your first date, the trail where you go on weekend hikes, or the little bookstore where you spent hours together. When there’s history behind the location, the moment automatically feels more special.
2. Take Advantage of Charlotte’s Art Scene
Want a proposal backdrop that’s creative without trying too hard? Charlotte is full of stunning murals and artistic spaces. The Confetti Hearts Wall in South End or one of the colorful NoDa murals can make for a beautiful, vibrant setting—plus, it’ll look amazing in photos.
3. Set Up a Romantic Picnic (Without Lifting a Finger)
A well-planned picnic is one of the easiest ways to create an intimate, meaningful moment. The best part? You don’t have to DIY it. Local companies like The Gathering Picnic Co. can set up a gorgeous spread with comfy seating, candles, and fresh florals at spots like Freedom Park or McGill Rose Garden. All you have to do is show up with the ring.
4. Go Big on Flowers (Because She’ll Love It)
Flowers make everything feel more romantic, and a beautifully arranged floral setup can take your proposal to the next level. Charlotte florists like Xpressions Floral Designs or Nectar can create stunning arrangements or even a full floral installation to make the moment extra dreamy.
Side Note: No pressure, but… not every woman is a huge fan of flowers, and some only love specific kinds. The key here is to show that you truly know her—so if she’s more into greenery, candles, or something totally unique, go that route instead. The goal is to make the proposal feel personal, which brings me to the next point…
5. Keep It Personal
What makes your relationship special? Maybe it’s an inside joke, a shared hobby, or even your dog (yes, people include their pets in proposals all the time). Adding a personal touch will make the proposal feel authentic and unique to your love story.
6. Make Sure Someone Captures the Moment
She’s going to want to relive this moment forever, so don’t let it just be a memory—get it on film! Okay, shameless plug incoming—at Draw Near Films, we specialize in capturing surprise proposals (and weddings—just saying 😉) in a way that feels natural and, most importantly, unobtrusive. You focus on the moment, and we’ll make sure it’s beautifully preserved for you both to cherish forever.
Our surprise proposal and engagement photo sessions (which include video clips for social media) are just $199 for 90mins and $325 for 2.5 hours, and we’d love to be part of your story. Book a free call with us today to get started!
7. Time It Right
Sunset proposals? Always a win. The golden-hour glow automatically makes everything feel more romantic. But if your partner is more of a morning person, a quiet sunrise proposal can be just as breathtaking. Think about what suits her personality and plan accordingly.
8. Plan Something Fun for Afterward
The proposal is just the beginning of the celebration! Whether it’s dinner at her favorite restaurant, a cozy night in, or a surprise get-together with friends and family, having a plan for what comes next makes the moment even sweeter.
Want to Make This Moment Unforgettable?
Let’s make sure your proposal is beautifully captured so you can relive it for years to come. Draw Near Films specializes in filming surprise proposals in a way that feels natural and cinematic. Reach out for a free consultation—we’d love to help you pull off the perfect proposal!
